9/5/2008 5:24:11 PM by: Aneesa
I declare that im a srtong Asian lady!(20) I cant say that i have had a bad life at all, my up bringing has been good. But i just wanted to say ladies stay strong, as good will come soon! if u believe in god or any kind of god, then if it helps prey! i believe that everyone is here for a reason and strongly believe in what happens throught our lives, happens for a reason, if its bad then we are meant to grow and learn from it, and move on! i hope that these few words help some people in one way or another be srtong! ladies stay strong together no matter of race, colour, religion or beliefs! loves xxx
9/5/2008 8:26:31 AM by: Jasmin (proud woman)
(reply to recent msg) i've been hurt also and i have been through alot of struggles in relationships but i won't give up just like that! u got an s.t.d thats ur fault u should have demanded that he use protection. men are not perfect & we aren't either, don't use one bad experience to alter ur life. its like ur tryin to convince other women to give up on men completely. wheres self esteem?
9/5/2008 1:48:46 AM by: Theresmoreinstore4meGODsaidso
Women and young ladies don't be a fool. Listen with your heart but don't fret for me there's more in store. Take it from a woman who's seen and gone through it all. I have never slept around, I have been 100% committed to my man of almost 10 yrs. I have recently learned that I have been lied to, cheated on, and now I'm dealing with an STD that has no cure. I'm pregnant hurt and confused. See I have worked hard my whole life to be all that I want to be, I have a good job and have always done the right thing. I don't smoke,drink party or mistreat people. However this is the delimma I'm faced with. See hurt and pain has no face, but it also plays no favorites. Women be commited to yourself, Love you, help others and be self empowered don't look for that in others. I'm living proof of what it could be and what I never thought It would be. See things for what they are and not what they could be. Life is too short. After all that's been done to me by this man I don't hate him, I don't mistreat him, I never once even thought to myself I wish I would have been with someone else. All I can think to myself is that I'm happy GOD is giving me the chance to live out my life for me. I see a clearer picture now. I now know that I will never have another boyfriend, I will never get married, and I will never know what it feels like to truly be loved by someone the way I have given love. So be self empowered ladies, love yourselves, respect others and demand the same in return. There are so many reasons to love yourself but if you don't demand that of others do you really love you? Be honest with yourselves, protect yourselves especially, remember just because you're committed doesn't mean he will be. Don't get me wrong not all guys are the same but I now know it's truly better to play it safe than to be sorry. Good luck to all and thank you Ms. Ashanti for giving me the opportunity to possibly empower someone else.
9/5/2008 1:24:04 AM by: venom
mz. Anthony, first of all u can't stop him from liking other girls, u have no proof of him doing such a thing & at the same time u don't know if he's being faithful. my advice is don't do anything to jepordise the relationship try to find out if he's really playing u then u decide if u'll continue with him or not ok
9/4/2008 8:12:54 PM by: Mz.Anthony
there's a gurl at my school that i can not stan but the thing is that she like my boyfriend but my boyfriend dont like her. Or should i say he might like her because my bestfriend told me that he be walkin this gurl home and he be kissin on her. He tells me that he's not doing dat a he love me and he will never hurt me. the same day he was suppose 2 walk the gurl home was the same day he walked me home. IM THINKIN HE WALKED HER HOME AFTER HE WALKED ME HOME. I REALLY LOVE HIM AND DONT WANT 2 LOSE HIM.IF ANYBODY HAVE ANY ADVICE ON WAT I SHOULD DO CAN U PLEASE E-MAIL ME AT WWW.JATALIAGAUSE@YAHOO.COM THANK YOU
9/4/2008 12:10:04 PM by: venom
hey sarah i hope u gain all that u can from school & hope u have a successful year. just forget about drinking ok i bet ur a beautiful young lady & drinking can spoil all that ok, www.myspace.com/venomsrap1
9/3/2008 11:00:32 PM by: S@r@h
hey yall itz me once again well i just got to say today was my first day back at school things turned out to be a good day but um i just wanted to say im now over my drinking problem thank to the advise i got on here so i could say this web site was a good idea for women like myself trust me ladies where in this thing together
8/31/2008 5:09:44 PM by: casmin
You are a wonderful female role model
8/31/2008 5:09:36 PM by: casmin wilson
You are a wonderful female role model
8/30/2008 7:00:18 PM by: venom
love ashanti always!!! www.myspace.com/venomsrap1